5.1 Can sex dolls really be our companions in life?

A sex doll is a highly authentic sex toy, and its main function is for sex. In the past, inflatable dolls have been mentioned in many movies and reports. With the revolution of technology, the current realistic dolls (usually made of silicone or TPE) came into being. They are even more beautiful than real people, with long legs, small waist, big boobs, and a small face. Like many male dream lovers, sexy, glamorous, pure and healing. As long as there is a need, they can become your lover, wife or whatever you want.

Most people think that sex doll users are otaku, who usually don’t interact with women and don’t have wives in their middle years. In fact, 30%-40% of our users are married. The childless couple would buy a doll to raise as their daughter. Or the elderly who are widowed will find spiritual sustenance through the doll. So are the love dolls sex toys or human companions? Can they emotionally replace real people? Does their existence have any impact on intimacy in reality?

Jim's story

Sex Doll players have their own communities. Like other interest groups, they share fun and experiences in the forums. They also make friends and socialize.”We usually put our dolls on the sofa and then talk about life, housing prices and national conditions,” said Jim, a Canadian native.

Jim, 34 years old, is very cheerful and talkative. It is hard to see that he has been playing with dolls for more than ten years. He lives with his girlfriend, and there are two silicone dolls sitting on the sofa in the living room, just like artworks.

Due to hormonal sexual impulses, Jim had an interest in sex dolls when he was in college. And he put it down after puberty. Until the age of 31, he broke up with his girlfriend who had been dating for 3 years. It was a bit like a divorce, and he was exhausted. The failure of this relationship made him more honest with himself, he resumed his love for dolls, and found a goal in life.

Jim said:”Sakura is my first realistic doll made of silicone. I have never had sex with her and just raised her as a daughter. My living room was full of five dolls. I sent two back to my hometown because of my girlfriend.”

For Jim, the doll is a new start in his life. It can stay with him until he gets over the damage of the last relationship and starts a new one. “But if you can’t get out, it doesn’t matter. With the company of the dolls, you can stay in that beautiful world for the rest of your life and never be influenced by the routine of reality.” Jim laughed and said.

June Korea's story

I was shocked when a collection of photos of Eva shot by a South Korean artist June Korea popped up. Eva is a silicone doll, his fantasy girlfriend. They slept together, went shopping together, went picnicking together, just like a real couple. These photos are not pornographic, but there is an indescribable sense of loneliness.

Here’s what he said:
I have been shooting sex dolls since 2002 because of the loneliness.

I don’t lack socializing. But when I wake up alone, go home alone after parties and work, or stand in a crowd, I feel lonely.

When I was a child, I naively assumed that my family and friends would never leave me, and that my fond memories would never fade away. But I found out that over time, I lost them anyway.

While studying art in New York, I experienced breaking up with my girlfriend at the time. At that time, I had the idea of taking Eva as my fantasy girlfriend and photographing her. People will leave, but the doll will not die. If I record all this in the fantasy world, it will become eternal.

I intensively photographed Eva for 2 years. I spend almost every day with her. We slept, went shopping, and had a picnic together. We laughed and cried together. We felt happy or lonely together.

Passersby would stare at us strangely, and someone would come and touch Eva, but I didn’t care. I knew that this relationship was not real. The loneliness of being human had always been a reality that I could not get rid of. However, if you need, the doll will stay with you forever and never die.

In fact, sex dolls are a substitute and fulfillment for real life. It’s quite similar to love psychology, but more inclined to possess and control a person. You may suffer setbacks in real life and find it difficult to establish a good relationship, or you have some psychological needs that cannot be satisfied in reality. Therefore, in a virtual world, this part of fantasy can be satisfied.

Some people may not be able to express their desires to a real partner, but they get satisfaction from the sex doll. Of course, the dolls can not replace the real person, but they do help our users to satisfy some of their emotions, repair their pain, repair their losses, and satisfy some of their psychological desires.

6.11 When you have a real relationship, do you still need a sex doll?

Real intimacy is about equality and autonomy. Sex dolls are also a manifestation of the desire for control in sexual relationships, while real people are much more difficult to control.

Statistics show that the vast majority of men still masturbate after marriage. When you and your partner can’t agree on sexual and emotional issues, you need to satisfy them in other ways. A sex doll is the best choice you can try.

Many women have feelings of confrontation with their husband’s mistress, such as “the silicone doll defeated me” or “I’m unattractive”. Such feelings of frustration are unnecessary. The sex doll is just an external thing, but you can get a deeper understanding of your relationship through the sex dolls. Make a communication with your partner and know why your partner needs a sex doll.

5.2 Beyond Companionship, Other Functions of Sex Dolls

5.21 Fetish

Another reason why sex dolls are popular is that they allow you to explore your wildest secret fantasies, fetishes, and kinky predilections while keeping your personal sexual interests private. Many people don’t feel comfortable saying that they get off on something that might be considered weird, unusual, or perverted. What you do in the exclusive company of your love doll is perfectly acceptable.

5.22 sex practice

By using sex dolls, you can exercise your sex skills and durability very well. Sex dolls are more realistic and immersive than any other masturbation tools. At the same time, the artificial alloy bones are installed inside her body, so she can perform various actions like real people, so you can have real simulated sex and exercise your powerful sexual ability.

5.23 Collecting and artistic photography

Some love doll collectors or owners collect love dolls in order to collect an art form. This usually involves dressing up the love doll and posing for photographs. Some love doll owners like to have their dolls photographed with a romantic element of lovemaking. Others, by contrast, prefer to photograph their love dolls individually in a variety of clothing styles, uniforms, and fantasy costumes.

6. Who Did Invent The Sex Dolls? – The History of Sex Dolls

Sex has always been the craziest pursuit of mankind. The emergence and popularity of sex dolls is a manifestation of the rapid development of the sexual revolution. Today, we will trace the history of sex dolls to help you learn more about sex dolls.

16th Century – The first sex dolls were invented by Spanish sailors in the 16th century who have been isolated during long voyages. These female sex dolls were made out of sewn cloth and called “Dame De Voyage” in French, “Dama De Vinje” in Spanish. Later, the Dutch sold some of the dolls to the Japanese during the Rangaku period, and which is why sex dolls are still called “Dutch wives” today.

1918s – Austrian artist Oscar Kokoschka commissioned a life-size doll of Alma Mahler from German puppet maker Hermine Moos while he was in Dresden. But this doll did satisfy Kokoschka and he destroyed it at a party.

1930s – German surrealist artist Hans Bellmer, known as “the father figure of the modern sex doll”, has produced three more realistic dolls with increasingly sophisticated designs, which moved sex dolls further into the future.

1939s – 1945s – There are rumors that Nazi Germany made sex dolls for soldiers during World War II. But it has not been confirmed by reliable sources and is now thought to be a hoax.

1980s – The inflatable kind could be found in most sex shops during this period. But the inflatable material can only support a certain amount of weight or be reused before the seam deteriorates. So it was more suited to be gag gifts at a frat party than to actually withstand sex with a real human.

1996s – In the late 90s, the realism and practicality of sex dolls made a huge leap forward. The artist Matt McMullen began working on a lifelike silicone female mannequin, and made the first realistic sex dolls for those in need. The dolls are made of silicone material and have a poseable PVC skeleton with steel joints. He also started the company Real Dolls, one of the most popular sex doll companies in the world.

2005 – Japanese sex doll company starts to rent out high-quality silicone sex dolls – Dutch Wives. By the end of 2005, there were more than 40 Japanese Forest Dolls stores nationwide. Thanks to the development of the Internet, it has become easier to purchase sex dolls online from the USA and Japan, which also stimulates global growth for sex dolls.

2007 – A Japanese company invents the “Sexual Audio System.” They added an mp3 player with a built-in pressure sensor to the sex dolls’ breasts. Dolls from this period had detachable heads and could even be implanted with real pubic hair.

2009 – The first male sex doll was made by Germans, named named “Nax.” It costs $10,000 and features “automatic erect penis” and “artificial automatic ejaculation.”

2010 – The first Chinese sex doll was produced, and sold under the DS Doll brand.

2014 – Chinese sex doll brand WM DOLLS is the first to use TPE material for sex dolls. The dolls are not only cheaper than before, but also more realistic. More and more Chinese sex doll manufacturers have sprung up, including YL, Dollhouse 168, 6YE Premium Doll, Irontech Doll, and Doll4ever and etc.

Over the years, the growing demand for sex dolls has spurred advances in Chinese sex doll manufacturing. Now, you can choose the skin color, body style, breasts types and so on to customize your own sex dolls according to your preferences. More and more new information of sex dolls will be updated here, so stay tuned!